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Dim Lady

Fiction | Poem | Adult | Published in 2002

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Themes

True Intimacy and the Individuality of Love

Though the list of physical attributes presented in “Dim Lady” do not represent the feminine ideals traditionally celebrated in sonnets and other forms of love poetry, the speaker’s authentic and humorous tone conveys the intimacy of a loving relationship between two individuals who are wholly themselves with each other. Only a close couple can employ near-insults as a way to communicate a loving message; the trust that underpins such a relationship reflects the true intimacy and familiarity that characterizes mature love.

After the volta in line 10, the speaker of the poem makes a final assertion celebrating her beloved, who is, in the speaker’s opinion, flawed but highly lovable. The speaker claims at the end of the poem that her beloved is more attractive than “any / lanky model or platinum movie idol” (Lines 11-12), confirming that love is an individual and unique experience for the couple in the love relationship. Though others may not understand the appeal of hair the color of “dishwater” (Line 4) and the scent of “the garlic breeze my / main squeeze wheezes” (Lines 7-8), the speaker of the poem loves her beloved for all her qualities, including the less obviously appealing ones.

American Consumerism

The speaker’s use of contemporary American brand names draws attention to the consumerist habits of present-day Americans. Mullen’s product choices are notable for their widespread availability, generic nature, and factory-like reproducibility; she does not write about luxury goods or expensive name brands, but about highly accessible office supplies like “Liquid Paper” (Line 2), and chain restaurants like “Red Lobster” (Line 2) and “Shakey’s pizza parlors” (Line 5). She uses the cheap and notoriously unhealthy processed-food “Twinkie” (Line 11) as a term of endearment, juxtaposing the genuine depth of the speaker’s love with the artificiality of the Twinkie.

Mullen’s choice to employ these product names emphasizes not just the ubiquity of these items, but the way their mass reproduction has altered taste. Just as in Shakespeare’s time, unrealistic beauty standards meant all sonnets addressed identical-looking beloveds, so in modern America, all reds must be only the “table- / cloths in Shakey’s Pizza Parlors” (Lines 4-5), all idiosyncratic music styles yield to the homogenizing Muzak, and the only acceptable beauty is dictated by the appearance of “lanky model or platinum movie idol” (Line 12) such as Marilyn Monroe. The speaker rejects this model of attraction, calling chain restaurants and celebrity culture “hyped beyond belief” (Line 12), and they instead insist on the individuality and unique features of her own beloved, flawed as they may be.

Humor and Incongruity

Humor is often funny because there is an unexpected element to the language employed to inspire laughter in others. Some humor theorists surmise that using the unexpected is the most surefire way to get a laugh from an audience, as the incongruity of two widely contrasted images call attention to the differences and the absurdity of the comparison. Throughout “Dim Lady,” the speaker of the poem uses unexpectedness and incongruity to comic effect, encouraging the reader to experience love and sexual attraction as a matter of lightness and laughter.

The use of humor in “Dim Lady” contributes to the notion of the poem as a parody or even a satire of the sonnet convention. An analysis of the poem and its humor reveals a teasing tone that mocks the earnest Petrarchan tradition of the love sonnet. As well, the poet is also honoring the last group of Shakespeare’s sonnet collection of 1609, in which the playwright plays with the sonnet himself. A comparison of “Dim Lady” to Shakespeare’s Sonnet 130 (see Further Reading) reveals a shared vision of humor and wit, all the funnier for its unexpected comparisons and incongruous metaphors.

By comparing love objects to decidedly unlovable objects, the poet is suggesting that love and sexual attraction need not be serious matters. The humor in the poem even suggests that intimate relationships based on a shared sense of humor are perhaps the most worthy of celebrating in love poetry.

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